2. coming home last night, a heart full of sadness and fear, and looking up to a deep blue sky. cloudy, but calming.
3. i keep feeling as if something is terribly missing. what is it?
4. Mariee Sioux's "Buried in Teeth."
2. coming home last night, a heart full of sadness and fear, and looking up to a deep blue sky. cloudy, but calming.
3. i keep feeling as if something is terribly missing. what is it?
4. Mariee Sioux's "Buried in Teeth."
2. seeing the Laramie Project performed at my university. at the end, a screen displayed the view of Laramie from where Matthew Shepherd would have seen it. the audience cried.
i have always been a very aesthetically-oriented person. i love going to new places because i am inundated with new things to see. i also have clinical depression, which i seem to have inherited from my dad. when things seem very dark in my life, i try to stop looking inward, and instead feel the warm sun on my skin and the beauty of a sheer white curtain. i think it helps to keep me sane.
one day in boulder, co, i was walking to class and was in a terrible mood. the morning sun was warm and the leaves were scattered on the ground, but i didn't notice because i was hunched over and obsessing about the things that were going wrong. i glanced up to see a branch, eye-level, with the sun blazing through a tiny patch of moss. suddenly, i thought to myself, "doesn't the universe supply everything that i need?" i looked around to realize what a fantastic fall morning it was. and, more importantly, i realized that everything would work out.
i don't believe in a god per se, but i like to think that the world is quite a lovely dance. this somewhat goes against my sociological field of study, but i try to think that we have all of the resources, love, power, etc. that we need. i guess that doesn't stop me from fighting for the people whose resources are scooped up by greedy souls. but still.
i try to live my life by thinking that i have what i need already, and that things work the way they are supposed to, whether i can understand them or not. when i left boulder in anger, i thought i was a failure. but, the course that i ended up taking led me to sociology, which is my absolute love. bad relationships led me to be more confident. negative periods of my life led to bright spots. although i am not always an optimist, i try to see the good in things if i can. this is tempered by my ridiculously skeptical, analytic nature, but i try.
so, if you are reading this, it means that you have found this blog. somehow. i want to say welcome to you, and hopefully you can experience the tiny moments of joy in my life with me.
although i can have days where things are dark and i can't stop crying, i also have amazing glimmers.
"why are you smiling? you're going to class!" asked our janitor once. i didn't even realize what i was feeling. but, i guess when i stopped to notice the smell of pine sap or to appreciate the sun's persistent effort, i felt very lucky to be able to look outside of myself and all of my despondency, if just for a moment, and experience life.
2. Bon Iver.
3. a huge pile of leaves. i'm late for class, so i suppress the urge to jump in, but i shuffle my feet along the edge.
4. Little Dragon's song "Blinking Pigs."